@Nilofer, I am currently reading Radical Candor by Kim Scott. As I listen to your words to Healthy Tension, they remind me of how Ms. Scott relates to the "growth trajectory" that folks are on at different times within their life and/or career. It is, to me, letting everyone have the microphone at the "right time" for them ... not at the time "we" deem to be right or what may "seem to be the right time" for whatever reason. It really is a personal thing ... speaking up and/or listening with your goal/reason/requirement and/or need second to theirs is truly the way to live and understand Onlyness, from my perspective anyway.
@Nilofer, I am currently reading Radical Candor by Kim Scott. As I listen to your words to Healthy Tension, they remind me of how Ms. Scott relates to the "growth trajectory" that folks are on at different times within their life and/or career. It is, to me, letting everyone have the microphone at the "right time" for them ... not at the time "we" deem to be right or what may "seem to be the right time" for whatever reason. It really is a personal thing ... speaking up and/or listening with your goal/reason/requirement and/or need second to theirs is truly the way to live and understand Onlyness, from my perspective anyway.
Really enjoyed this. Thanks much.
G